Women Are In The House To Stay

The court order took everything into account so why are you sending me this?
Take it back to court if you want it is up to you but you know that it is all bullshit.
Why can't you get a job to pay to feed the kids yourself?  I don't understand it??
There is no way they eat more than 400 a moth in food.  There is no excuse .  You can
live on my money and sit on
your ass if you want, I guess cause the court allows it, but is that the example you
want to show your kids? that women are in the house to stay?  There is no excuse for
you not findiing work in my opinion.  If you were working then you would
not need to do this all the time would you?  You are just being greedy because in
reality you do not need anything from me to raise the kids, I don't understand why me
putting money away every month to give them free education is not doing something for
them?  Think about it.    I wish I had my education paid for as I would have good
credit now and not have to live on cash.  What is wrong with you anyways?  I thought
you were going to change moving out there and getting work and stuff but I guess
I was wrong.  It does not take this long to find a job out thee if you were looking.
Why not get a job and make life easier on everyone?  That is what everyone else does
don't they?  Even working part time or waiting on tables there will make you
enough money and give you a flexible schedule so ther is no excuse.  I bet you make
good money on tips considering the money thrown around there.



The deplorable deadbeat stated that my children's education is being paid for.  Well
allow me to explain something:  he is supposed to put $300.00 into a RESP for our
children every month.  By the time our children are ready to enter university this
means that he would have contributed $43,200 to an RESP (which has not been set up
as per court order).  With rising costs of tuition this grandiouse amount will not
even cover two years of university per child.  So they're education is certainly
neither "free" or "paid for" by him.  And as I previously stated, this account
has not been established as per court order.  The money is supposedly sitting in his
bank account until he has time to set up an account for them.  This was supposed to
be done six months ago.

I would also like to explain why I am not currently employed, as I do believe that it
is certainly my responsibility to support my children as much as it is the deadbeats.
First and foremost I have recently moved to a new town where I don't know
anyone thus childcare has been near impossible to find,second  we are currently in a
recession, employers are not hiring and when they do there are a large number of
people who have lost their jobs applying for the positions.

What I find despicable is the comment the deadbeat made concerning women.  Do I want
to teach my children that women are in the house to stay?  I didn't think women were
in the house to stay any longer, and I didn't think it was socially unaceptable
for a woman to stay at home and raise her family.  My children have seen me go to
work everyday as well as stay home and be a mom.  They have dreams and aspirations
just like every other child has regardless of whether their mothers stay at home or
enter the workforce.  What my children are being taught is that no matter what
they decide to do with their lives all that matters is that it makes them happy and
gives them a sense of accomplishment.

My question for the deadbeat is:  Do you want to teach your children to avoid
responsibility?